This is so true… but it also happens AFTER you have put your foot down and kept it there about certain things. Self preservation is not selfish and should never be confused as such. Givers must set boundaries because takers never will (let that marinate for a second). What we allow will continue until you decide what is and what is not okay for you, your life, your family, your relationships, etc. Don’t be afraid to love some folks from a distance especially if they’re toxic. God instructs us to love them not have everyone over the house for dinner and fellowship.